How to Hold It Together at Work When Life Is Falling Apart

There are days when showing up for work feels impossible.
You’re dealing with loss, grief, burnout, or emotional chaos—and yet, your clients, deadlines, and responsibilities keep showing up like clockwork.

It’s exhausting. It’s unfair. And it’s real.

But here’s the truth: you don’t have to be all put-together to keep going.
You just need a plan to protect your energy and honor your humanity.

1. Drop the Performance

You don’t need to fake being fine.

You don’t need to slap a smile on your face to be “professional.”
You need to be functional, focused, and honest about your capacity.

Choose the projects that must get done. Let the rest wait or delegate if possible.

2. Set Micro-Boundaries

Big boundaries feel impossible when everything is falling apart.
So start small.

  • Turn off notifications after 6 PM

  • Give yourself permission to say “not right now”

  • Block 15 minutes between calls to breathe

It doesn’t have to be perfect. It just has to help.

3. Share Selectively

You don’t have to explain your personal life to everyone.
But sharing with your team (or even just one trusted person) can remove pressure and create space for support.

This isn’t about oversharing—it’s about not suffering in silence.

4. Know What Fills Your Tank

What gives you even a sliver of relief or grounding?

  • A walk

  • A bath

  • Journaling

  • Music

  • Getting outside

  • Turning off the damn phone

When everything feels heavy, lightness has to be intentional.

Final Thought

You are allowed to be a full human and a business owner at the same time.

Let the tears come. Let the hard days exist.
But don’t forget: you’re still moving. You’re still leading. You’re still showing up—and that’s enough.

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